The most scintillating piece of advice I gleaned from my university poetry professor was this: your poems, no matter how personal or evoked by reality, do not have to be factual. Perhaps the rug was, in reality, a forest green, but the poem begs it to be chartreuse. Allow the rug to sour; the poem is its own and gets the final say.
This motif has followed me through years of writing, compelling me to first tell what is most real within poetic frame rather than what is most actual. And as this motif has followed me in my craft, it has been unshakable in the rest of my being. The physical realm is full of actualities, but it teems even more with what is real.
I ask you this week, dear reader, to sense the real.
Beautiful.
And such great advice. I’ve been thinking about that lately… because sometimes I get carried away by a poem and it’s not “factual.” Often I wonder if that’s cheating. But I guess per your professor, it most certainly is not! 💌
Such a beautiful poem. Thanks for writing it and sharing some of your process, Caroline!